Initial approach dating
Here is my question: Are men ok with women sending introductory emails to them? In some ways, I see a email hello similar to a come-hither look at a bar, etc.
but in other ways it seems very aggressive and therefore a turnoff to most men. Dear Jane, Your question brings up two of the most common mistakes that women make in online dating: 1) Waiting for Men to Write to You First 2) Telling Him What You Like About His Profile First things first: Men LOVE it when women write to them. If you have an attractive photo, interesting essay, and you’re in his target demographic, why WOULDN’T he be excited to hear from you?
Berlin may be a city chock-full of sexy, chiseled Germans, but how do you snag your own liebling (sweetie)?
It is really quite simple—finding a German man is easy, but keeping one is the difficult part.
You’d never hit on a guy at a bar by walking up to him and telling him that he’s cute, he seems nice, and that you’d like to buy him a drink.
If you find yourself a bit shy, turn to the Internet.
There are Internet dating sites in Germany, including one for gay men called ‘Gay Romeo’ (
You may be on his Favorites list but he hasn’t had the opportunity to contact you yet.
So yes, Jane, don’t hesitate to contact that guy you’ve been eyeing. ” Presuming you’ve had a man write to you before, is it really all that interesting when he tells you that he thinks you’re cute?